13. Jealousy – People may tear you down in surprising, intense ways for things out of your control- too much money, not enough money; too like-able/popular OR not; purple instead of blue and pink?! … On and On, and you may have no clue why……
11. Goodness even comes in your hardships. Difficulty can offer information & strength for getting through and to use next time. Look for what insight may be gained in your challenges.
Might as well get something out of it… !?
10. It can be hard to say or ask for what you need; you may be shot down. Think what you need should just be obvious and offered; sometimes others REALLY need help to know how to love you. And yes, you still may be turned down! Must try or you might be cutting yourself short and depriving self of needed information or possible choices you may need to make.
9. Use of Physical harm – only to defend yourself. Good to know how (I’ve got a couple a’ moves to show you to add to your reserves, yes, good ol’ aunty!). Otherwise Use Your Mind or, in case of #5 person… don’t provoke others, keep away, move away if possible.
8. Which brings me to
Focus and attraction- WHAT WE FOCUS ON GROWS AROUND US… like a magnet. Be careful what you wish for; be specific on what you want rather than focus on what you do not want = may seem like the same thing but acts differently on our bodies & well being, and is like a time worthy investment.
TO BE Continued
7. Value can come from old, young (yes, even you despite how condemned some adults may leave you feeling), poor, green, and the less lovely. Don’t Miss Out!
6. and.… Rage, Yell, Cry, Scream when you need!!! Get It Out!!!!! SAFELY.
Find a place. Yes it stinks that it’s in their but make note of it.
FIND SOLUTION, and so you can let it go and can make room for new..
-You WILL see others who carry it around all pinned up; are dictated by anger and some (who have been hurt so badly) even revel in it.
Shwuuuu!!! Pretty heavy. . .Refer to 4 & 5
5. ANGER = danger = Natural …yes. = Destructive, reckless and hurtful,…yes, yes, yes!
BEWARE!!! In yourself and others.
May get caught in the rush of it, feel powerful and righteous when it is let loose instead of managed (like a wild stallion to be tamed and respected)
You must take control of it OR it may overtake control of you, ….like its puppet with no conscience.
-SO… Not the time to engage when angered…return when calm if needed.
4. We people are like individual Chemicals; How well and how poorly a person might behave toward you is mostly about them… not you! Also is how your traits mix but people are probably the same way with everyone not just you! So whether someone does something rotten or makes you feel wonderful (like aunt Staci), it is probably best to share time with others you admire and fit naturally. What we attract (see #8) remains a choice to accept or reject… some chemical combination are explosive.
2. What is true for others or for you, or what makes a person happy may vary. Not wrong or right.
1. Question authority/Opinions for yourself (Yes, even mine here now!).
-You might have to comply, but separate what is true.